27 July 2020

lessons from reviewing books on pedophilia
ethan edwards

Based on my experience with pedophiles online, all of these authors have done a decent job of portraying a believable pedophile.

14 December 2019

men not attracted to 13yo girls? ha!
ethan edwards

A 2012 movie showed convincingly is that most men are attracted to girls of age 13 or older.

14 June 2018

pedophilia as a minor secret from your partner
ethan edwards

This post is directed at pedophiles who have some attraction to adults and would like to have a relationship with an adult. (I'll focus on men attracted to women, but all other gender combinations are also possible).

6 March 2017

the iq deficit of pedo abusers may not transfer to the celibate
ethan edwards

Research on pedophiles has suggested that we differ from ordinary peoplein a variety of non-flattering ways . The implications of being short or left-handed are obvious and not very serious for a person's self-concept. But IQ is more central to a person's self-worth, and the claimed deficit bothers...

3 April 2016

to every thing a season: objectifying people
ethan edwards

A loud feminist complaint in society is that men objectify women and view them as sex objects. Women want instead to be treated as full people with talents, opinions, and aspirations, just like men. I believe that in general men will instinctively evaluate women with regard to their attractiveness regardless...

22 January 2016

thought moralists on sexual attraction
ethan edwards

I got to thinking about this issue when a radio show host was saying that adult male attraction to 16-year-olds was positively sick and perverted. He presented it as something obvious — not a controversial conclusion he had reached that might need some support.

Based on my experience with pedophiles online, all of these authors have done a decent job of portraying a believable pedophile.

A 2012 movie showed convincingly is that most men are attracted to girls of age 13 or older.

This post is directed at pedophiles who have some attraction to adults and would like to have a relationship with an adult. (I'll focus on men attracted to women, but all other gender combinations are also possible).

Research on pedophiles has suggested that we differ from ordinary peoplein a variety of non-flattering ways . The implications of being short or left-handed are obvious and not very serious for a person's self-concept. But IQ is more central to a person's self-worth, and the claimed deficit bothers...

A loud feminist complaint in society is that men objectify women and view them as sex objects. Women want instead to be treated as full people with talents, opinions, and aspirations, just like men. I believe that in general men will instinctively evaluate women with regard to their attractiveness regardless...

I got to thinking about this issue when a radio show host was saying that adult male attraction to 16-year-olds was positively sick and perverted. He presented it as something obvious — not a controversial conclusion he had reached that might need some support.

11 April 2023

fantasies of adult-child sex disgust even the sex-positive public
ethan edwards

What are the limits pedophiles should self-impose on their sexual fantasies?

11 April 2023

how can you want to keep an attraction you can never act on?
ethan edwards

Given that we are for moral reasons totally unable to express our sexuality with children, our right to private sexual fantasy would seem imore important.

23 August 2022

professionals might be won over even if public is not
ethan edwards

My hope for changing public opinion is very low. But how can things get better?

30 June 2022

taxonomy of pedophiles and public
ethan edwards

After 10 years of Virtuous Pedophiles, what has it revealed about different attitudes toward pedophilia?

2 April 2022

one group of sympathetic pedophiles might be enough?
ethan edwards

Improving our situation requires changing minds of a range of non-pedophiles.

18 January 2022

the chasm between celibate pedophiles and acceptance
ethan edwards

This may be a bleak picture, but we need to understand the reality gap we face.

7 June 2021

counting the distressed cp victims
ethan edwards

How do we come up with measured public policy on this?

29 May 2021

anti-pedophile restrictions — attitudes or technology?
ethan edwards

The public has also become less and less tolerant of pedophilia since 2012. Laws reflect this.

7 May 2021

accepting law-abiding pedophiles: five stages of grief
ethan edwards

The process that a typical non-pedophile goes through when coming to accept realistic and tolerant ideas about pedophiles.

24 March 2021

taking stock of progress by anti-legalization pedophiles
ethan edwards

In June of 2012, nearly 9 years ago, Nick Devin and I launched the website Virtuous Pedophiles. We got some interest from media and progressive scientists who study pedophilia. The interest has lessened along with the novelty, but it has not disappeared. They perceived us as something new. We were pedophiles...

13 March 2021

the pluses of denial of pedophilia
ethan edwards

There is a fairly large class of pedophiles who might do well to not even come out to themselves

3 September 2020

private sexual thoughts do not violate a child's rights
ethan edwards

People are disgusted by the idea of adult sexual attraction to children, independent of any harm to particular children from child sex exploitation.

15 August 2020

critique of a podcast: the worst epidemic
ethan edwards

It's as if you said, Lawbreakers! Disgusting people! An epidemic of vast proportions! Some of them murder and torture people! That's true. But there are other lawbreakers who park in no parking zones or let the time expire on their meters.

3 August 2020

my boyfriend's a pedophile, version 2
ethan edwards

I would estimate we heard from 180 women in this situation in the first six years of our existence.

27 July 2020

lessons from reviewing books on pedophilia
ethan edwards

Based on my experience with pedophiles online, all of these authors have done a decent job of portraying a believable pedophile.

26 July 2020

review: dream children
ethan edwards

The book is fiction, but we can ask whether such a positive outcome is realistic, given Oliver as he is presented. I have my doubts.

18 July 2020

review: my dark vanessa
ethan edwards

This book is a strong advertisement for the age of consent.

7 June 2020

pedophilia-be-gone pill
ethan edwards

Here's how members of the VirPed forum voted on a hypothetical pill to remove their attractions.

16 May 2020

a new online course for young pedophiles
ethan edwards

A new resource for young pedophiles from The Moor Center

13 May 2020

science proves you like sex just as much with a condom
ethan edwards

(In case there is any doubt, the title is sarcastic).

9 May 2020

the iwf: comparing harm from viewing to other harms
ethan edwards

4 of 4. Considering narratives from the IWF about whether types of harm from CSEM can be different.

8 May 2020

the iwf: what are the viewers thinking?
ethan edwards

3 of 4. Looking at the IWF's possible attitudes to the intentions of viewers of CSEM.

7 May 2020

the iwf: young teens
ethan edwards

2 of 4. Looking at the issue of self-made images of teens in the light of IWF statements.

6 May 2020

the iwf: pixels from a crime scene
ethan edwards

1 of 4. A review of the Pixels from a Crime Scene podcast from the Internet Watch Foundation.

1 March 2020

bailey's middle path
ethan edwards

Mike Bailey has given his view of the age of consent question and shared it with me.

13 January 2020

holden caulfield: pedophile, yes. monster, no.
ethan edwards

Salinger's Holden Caulfield is a decent pedophile. So was Salinger.

14 December 2019

men not attracted to 13yo girls? ha!
ethan edwards

A 2012 movie showed convincingly is that most men are attracted to girls of age 13 or older.

12 December 2019

the parallel between hiv and pedophilia
ethan edwards

Is CSAM use a public health issue akin to other illnesses?

27 November 2019

houston police: be afraid for no good reason
ethan edwards

There is horror at the general idea of what might be happening with some pedophile all alone at home, even though no one else will ever know what happened.

8 November 2019

funding to reduce csa is never specifically to catch passive cp viewers
ethan edwards

The government and private funders allocate money to stop child sex abuse. Their purpose is not really being met.

What are the limits pedophiles should self-impose on their sexual fantasies?

Given that we are for moral reasons totally unable to express our sexuality with children, our right to private sexual fantasy would seem imore important.

My hope for changing public opinion is very low. But how can things get better?

After 10 years of Virtuous Pedophiles, what has it revealed about different attitudes toward pedophilia?

Improving our situation requires changing minds of a range of non-pedophiles.

This may be a bleak picture, but we need to understand the reality gap we face.

How do we come up with measured public policy on this?

The public has also become less and less tolerant of pedophilia since 2012. Laws reflect this.

The process that a typical non-pedophile goes through when coming to accept realistic and tolerant ideas about pedophiles.

In June of 2012, nearly 9 years ago, Nick Devin and I launched the website Virtuous Pedophiles. We got some interest from media and progressive scientists who study pedophilia. The interest has lessened along with the novelty, but it has not disappeared. They perceived us as something new. We were pedophiles...

There is a fairly large class of pedophiles who might do well to not even come out to themselves

People are disgusted by the idea of adult sexual attraction to children, independent of any harm to particular children from child sex exploitation.

It's as if you said, Lawbreakers! Disgusting people! An epidemic of vast proportions! Some of them murder and torture people! That's true. But there are other lawbreakers who park in no parking zones or let the time expire on their meters.

I would estimate we heard from 180 women in this situation in the first six years of our existence.

Based on my experience with pedophiles online, all of these authors have done a decent job of portraying a believable pedophile.

The book is fiction, but we can ask whether such a positive outcome is realistic, given Oliver as he is presented. I have my doubts.

This book is a strong advertisement for the age of consent.

Here's how members of the VirPed forum voted on a hypothetical pill to remove their attractions.

A new resource for young pedophiles from The Moor Center

(In case there is any doubt, the title is sarcastic).

4 of 4. Considering narratives from the IWF about whether types of harm from CSEM can be different.

3 of 4. Looking at the IWF's possible attitudes to the intentions of viewers of CSEM.

2 of 4. Looking at the issue of self-made images of teens in the light of IWF statements.

1 of 4. A review of the Pixels from a Crime Scene podcast from the Internet Watch Foundation.

Mike Bailey has given his view of the age of consent question and shared it with me.

Salinger's Holden Caulfield is a decent pedophile. So was Salinger.

A 2012 movie showed convincingly is that most men are attracted to girls of age 13 or older.

Is CSAM use a public health issue akin to other illnesses?

There is horror at the general idea of what might be happening with some pedophile all alone at home, even though no one else will ever know what happened.

The government and private funders allocate money to stop child sex abuse. Their purpose is not really being met.

the p word is a collection of 283 articles, blogs, podcasts and threads in the voices of pedophiles and others who oppose adult child sexual contact and sexual exploitation of children. Despite our mainstream views, this content is frequently removed from mainstream social media or blog sites because openly discussing pedophile attractions or avowing them are not tolerated. Our side of the conversation continues here.

editor at the p word net

All images are AI and do not depict real people.

the p word is a collection of 283 articles, blogs, podcasts and threads in the voices of pedophiles and others who oppose adult child sexual contact and sexual exploitation of children. Despite our mainstream views, this content is frequently removed from mainstream social media or blog sites because openly discussing pedophile attractions or avowing them are not tolerated. Our side of the conversation continues here.

editor at the p word net

All images are AI and do not depict real people.