thread: things you're overlooking

thread: things you're overlooking

21 April 2020    
from twitter and bluesky threads

bly 

 

Get help! It isn't normal! Stay away from kids! Thanks for the suggestions, but...

 


Things you're overlooking when you yell "get help"...

~ You don't know what help is available
~ You don't know what it consists of
~ You don't know what it can and can't achieve
~ You don't know who is in need of it and to what extent
~ You don't know who you're talking to


Things you're overlooking when you yell, "it isn't normal!"...

~ Normal isn't a synonym for "morally OK"
~ If someone isn't normal, pointing that out adds nothing to solving anyone's problems.
~ Everyone has a normality, and those can include things that aren't normal for others


Things you're overlooking when you yell, "stay away from kids!"

~ There are kids everywhere
~ Many MAPs are themselves still kids and at school
~ Many people have kid relatives
~ The important thing is that you behave responsibly if you're going to encounter them


 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

thread: where do anti-contacts come from?

 

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never say die: the hard rules of suicide and map talk

   

bly

Thanks to the label anti-contact there is a new way for pedophiles to identify.

 

bly

People say that all we want to do is rape children. But this doesn't describe us well.

 

bly

We deal with the topic of suicide similarly to the topic of pedophilia: denial, pre-formed narratives and a fear of listening to details of the truth.

 
 
 
thread: where do anti-contacts come from?
bly

Thanks to the label anti-contact there is a new way for pedophiles to identify.

 
 
 
thread: window shoppers and thieves
bly

People say that all we want to do is rape children. But this doesn't describe us well.

 
 
 
never say die: the hard rules of suicide and map talk
bly

We deal with the topic of suicide similarly to the topic of pedophilia: denial, pre-formed narratives and a fear of listening to details of the truth.