thread: what doesn't harm kids?

thread: what doesn't harm kids?

25 March 2019    
from twitter and bluesky threads

bly 

 

It's important to understand what really harms children so we aim to prevent the right things.

 


Quick guide:

THINGS THAT DON'T INVOLVE HARMING REAL CHILDREN:
- Ageplay
- AB/DL
- DDLG
- Loli/Shota/other art
- Child Sex Dolls
- Fantasy
- Writing
- Having pro-c opinions

THINGS THAT HARM REAL CHILDREN:
- Child molestation
- Grooming
- Enacting pro-c ideas
- Making/using CSEM


One tweet was too short to capture all the subtleties of this but...

(a) I assume the non-harming activities I listed are either done by consenting adults or solo by minors, in general

(b) I am against pro-c opinions and feel they can lead to harm but (i) free speech and (ii) >


> there is a spectrum of critiques and opinions outside the standard view of abuse and aoc.

(c) DDLG is shorthand to include DDLB, DMLB, DMLG and all the other gender variants

(d) Trans identities could easily have been mentioned but would need explaining in other ways

>


> (e) Psychological states like DID/regression I guess fit in here somewhere but are more complex re consent

(f) All the "non-harm" actions are assumed voluntary on the part of the person initiating. Attraction to kids is involuntary but JUST AS HARMLESS AND NON-BLAMEWORTHY.


 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

the tragedy of child sex dolls and artificial cp

 

thread: normalizing pedophilia?

 

thread: how does a pedophile not become an abuser?

   

brett daywalker

No children have been harmed, and there is no evidence that the people viewing such media have or will harm children, but they have been made criminals anyway.

 

bly

The term "normalization" has come to mean "shut up" when used against us on social media.

 

bly

Pedophiles have different starting points and end with differing beliefs and behaviours. What do we know about why?

 
 
 
the tragedy of child sex dolls and artificial cp
brett daywalker

No children have been harmed, and there is no evidence that the people viewing such media have or will harm children, but they have been made criminals anyway.

 
 
 
thread: normalizing pedophilia?
bly

The term "normalization" has come to mean "shut up" when used against us on social media.

 
 
 
thread: how does a pedophile not become an abuser?
bly

Pedophiles have different starting points and end with differing beliefs and behaviours. What do we know about why?