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| |  | | 15 April 2025
nitro's final thoughts
nitro I am a pedophile. I've made over 18,000 posts on the VirPed forum since 2015. I am dying. |
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| |  | | 25 March 2025
life is not a decision: a pedophile parent
charlie keyes I decided, with every factor in play, that above all, I was going to be a damned good parent |
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| |  | | 30 September 2020
is artificial child pornography a good outlet?
leonard johnston 2 of 6: Is artificial CP moral? Might it lead to more harm? |
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| |  | | 19 July 2020
how people justify viewing child pornography (and why i don’t)
leonard johnston 1 of 6: Even if you disapprove of CP, meeting other pedophiles means encountering CP users, How to deal? |
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| |  | | 7 June 2020
pedophilia-be-gone pill
ethan edwards Here's how members of the VirPed forum voted on a hypothetical pill to remove their attractions. |
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| |  | | 25 May 2020
you, twenty years from now: setting your boundaries
leonard johnston How do you live a safe life? For me, an important part is understanding and sticking to my boundaries. |
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| |  | | 22 March 2020
a normal teenager... just a pedophile
leonard johnston For some teenagers, their sexuality brings loneliness. They're not sure who they can talk to. I couldn't talk to anyone. |
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| |  | | 8 March 2020
so you're a pedophile. now what?
leonard johnston You can be a happy and morally good person, and stay true to yourself, even with these attractions. |
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| |  | | 9 October 2019
thread: why don't anti-cs talk about the age of consent?
bly It's taboo to start a discussion about this among anti-contacts. Here's why. |
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| |  | | 29 September 2019
past the dark facts
bly A review of Sheila van den Heuvel-Collins' Past the Dark Field |
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| |  | | 22 September 2019
what do pedophiles fantasize about?
ethan edwards Our opponents feel we deserve fierce condemnation even if we will never harm a child, and seek to score points because we fantasize about something most people find disgusting. |
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| |  | | 25 August 2019
surprise: what of two 13-year-olds having sex?
ethan edwards 3. of 3. I'm in favor of letting teleiophiles (ordinary folks) figure out the right age of consent. They don't have a vested interest in the outcome. |
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| |  | | 25 March 2019
thread: what doesn't harm kids?
bly It's important to understand what really harms children so we aim to prevent the right things. |
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| |  | | 23 March 2019
thread: where do anti-contacts come from?
bly Thanks to the label anti-contact there is a new way for pedophiles to identify. |
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| |  | | 4 November 2018
the (not) reasons i'm anti-contact
brett daywalker Instead of talking about what my reasons for being anti-contact are, I want to go into what my reasons for being anti contact aren't. |
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| | | | 27 October 2018
thread: how does a pedophile not become an abuser?
bly Pedophiles have different starting points and end with differing beliefs and behaviours. What do we know about why? |
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| |  | | 7 September 2018
why pro-contact pedophile arguments are bullshit (by a pedophile)
bly Don't be suckered by those who say it's OK to act on it or those that claim it's inevitable you will. |
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| |  | | 16 January 2018
the first time i didn't view child pornography
bly Child sexual abuse material, known legally as child pornography, is a blight on children's lives. But what if you're the kind of person it's aimed at? |
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| |  | | 26 January 2016
review: lamb - the movie and book
ethan edwards Although I believe the law is too blunt an instrument to properly intervene in non-sexual friendships between men and children, Lamb shows the emotional dangers. |
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| |  | | 28 August 2014
pedophilia and parenthood
ethan edwards Should pedophiles become parents? I imagine many readers will have a passionately negative reaction |
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| |  | | 10 August 2014
eating the family dog
ethan edwards A man is sexually attracted to young girls. He knows he will never act inappropriately with a real girl. But... |
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| |  | | 3 August 2014
what are celibate pedophiles like?
ethan edwards The only celibate pedophile I really know is me. What I want to know most about others is whether they are good people. |
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| | | | 24 July 2014
what do pedophiles do?
ethan edwards What is the best behaviour for pedophiles, given you don't like what we are? |
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| | | | 18 July 2014
who is it ok for pedophiles to fantasize about?
ethan edwards Given that we are for moral reasons totally unable to express our sexuality with children, our right to private sexual fantasy would seem if anything a bit more important than for ordinary folks. |
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| | | | 17 July 2014
is it ok for pedophiles to fantasize?
ethan edwards A pedophile who has never offended against a child and doesn't foresee a problem with offending ought to feel free to fantasize. |
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| |  | | 11 July 2014
civil libertarians must accept celibate pedophilia
ethan edwards What evidence could anyone possibly marshal to conclude that all the members of a group — one defined by their thoughts and not their actions — are sex offenders if they are undetected by anyone? |
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| |  | | 7 July 2014
virtuous pedophiles
ethan edwards An introduction to VirPed, started in 2012 |
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| | | | 6 July 2014
fundamental beliefs
ethan edwards What do anti-contact pedophiles believe? |
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15 April 2025
nitro's final thoughts
nitroI am a pedophile. I've made over 18,000 posts on the VirPed forum since 2015. I am dying. |
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25 March 2025
life is not a decision: a pedophile parent
charlie keyesI decided, with every factor in play, that above all, I was going to be a damned good parent |
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30 September 2020
is artificial child pornography a good outlet?
leonard johnston2 of 6: Is artificial CP moral? Might it lead to more harm? |
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19 July 2020
how people justify viewing child pornography (and why i don’t)
leonard johnston1 of 6: Even if you disapprove of CP, meeting other pedophiles means encountering CP users, How to deal? |
|
7 June 2020
pedophilia-be-gone pill
ethan edwardsHere's how members of the VirPed forum voted on a hypothetical pill to remove their attractions. |
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25 May 2020
you, twenty years from now: setting your boundaries
leonard johnstonHow do you live a safe life? For me, an important part is understanding and sticking to my boundaries. |
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22 March 2020
a normal teenager... just a pedophile
leonard johnstonFor some teenagers, their sexuality brings loneliness. They're not sure who they can talk to. I couldn't talk to anyone. |
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8 March 2020
so you're a pedophile. now what?
leonard johnstonYou can be a happy and morally good person, and stay true to yourself, even with these attractions. |
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9 October 2019
thread: why don't anti-cs talk about the age of consent?
blyIt's taboo to start a discussion about this among anti-contacts. Here's why. |
|
29 September 2019
past the dark facts
blyA review of Sheila van den Heuvel-Collins' Past the Dark Field |
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22 September 2019
what do pedophiles fantasize about?
ethan edwardsOur opponents feel we deserve fierce condemnation even if we will never harm a child, and seek to score points because we fantasize about something most people find disgusting. |
|
25 August 2019
surprise: what of two 13-year-olds having sex?
ethan edwards3. of 3. I'm in favor of letting teleiophiles (ordinary folks) figure out the right age of consent. They don't have a vested interest in the outcome. |
|
25 March 2019
thread: what doesn't harm kids?
blyIt's important to understand what really harms children so we aim to prevent the right things. |
|
23 March 2019
thread: where do anti-contacts come from?
blyThanks to the label anti-contact there is a new way for pedophiles to identify. |
|
4 November 2018
the (not) reasons i'm anti-contact
brett daywalkerInstead of talking about what my reasons for being anti-contact are, I want to go into what my reasons for being anti contact aren't. |
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27 October 2018
thread: how does a pedophile not become an abuser?
blyPedophiles have different starting points and end with differing beliefs and behaviours. What do we know about why? |
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7 September 2018
why pro-contact pedophile arguments are bullshit (by a pedophile)
blyDon't be suckered by those who say it's OK to act on it or those that claim it's inevitable you will. |
|
16 January 2018
the first time i didn't view child pornography
blyChild sexual abuse material, known legally as child pornography, is a blight on children's lives. But what if you're the kind of person it's aimed at? |
|
26 January 2016
review: lamb - the movie and book
ethan edwardsAlthough I believe the law is too blunt an instrument to properly intervene in non-sexual friendships between men and children, Lamb shows the emotional dangers. |
|
28 August 2014
pedophilia and parenthood
ethan edwardsShould pedophiles become parents? I imagine many readers will have a passionately negative reaction |
|
10 August 2014
eating the family dog
ethan edwardsA man is sexually attracted to young girls. He knows he will never act inappropriately with a real girl. But... |
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3 August 2014
what are celibate pedophiles like?
ethan edwardsThe only celibate pedophile I really know is me. What I want to know most about others is whether they are good people. |
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24 July 2014
what do pedophiles do?
ethan edwardsWhat is the best behaviour for pedophiles, given you don't like what we are? |
|
18 July 2014
who is it ok for pedophiles to fantasize about?
ethan edwardsGiven that we are for moral reasons totally unable to express our sexuality with children, our right to private sexual fantasy would seem if anything a bit more important than for ordinary folks. |
|
17 July 2014
is it ok for pedophiles to fantasize?
ethan edwardsA pedophile who has never offended against a child and doesn't foresee a problem with offending ought to feel free to fantasize. |
|
11 July 2014
civil libertarians must accept celibate pedophilia
ethan edwardsWhat evidence could anyone possibly marshal to conclude that all the members of a group — one defined by their thoughts and not their actions — are sex offenders if they are undetected by anyone? |
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7 July 2014
virtuous pedophiles
ethan edwardsAn introduction to VirPed, started in 2012 |
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6 July 2014
fundamental beliefs
ethan edwardsWhat do anti-contact pedophiles believe? |
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